Where have all the Men gone?!! ( to women who may be wondering!!)

Where have all the Men gone?!!

The truth, my dear, is that there are no men around. Not at least in the known sense of the way. There are boys who have grown their whiskers and have figured ways to make a living- some better than the others- but they have not grown enough to take their place in the sun!! Can't blame them either- it's a change of world order!! The age when we understood men to be equivalent of a unit of a society- a Jana - is over. Blame anything for it- including the empowerment of women - or an older order that defined men in terms of a center of definitions - has changed due to the emerging economic order!! 

So who are these boys?! Born males, but trying to make themselves relevant- by their earning capabilities, extra "education" or " knowledge"- or just some other Privilege of the last order!! 

By definition, a male is to be an alpha- or at least in the process of becoming one!! Now- that is not possible in times, as we know!! Maybe that's why so many of some are taking the path of being victims!! -) add to that a list of confirmations added by the cosmetic industry- and you have the metro males confirming to a new stereotype every season- the only common being among them is the total absence of any "alpha" content!! 

However, dears, I have hope for you!! You are that rare breed of women who is looking for an alpha male!! One who doesn't want to exemplify himself by his jokes, salary slip or bicep power!! These were never the alpha!! The real ones were always who led the crowd- Bcs they, foolishly, believed - that were right!!! They carried their women, children, fade outs, and all others to safety!! (Notice that only ones who may qualify to be close to these are generally a few politicians!!-)

Now, I look around me, and find none like these!! It is true that i look around for people I d like you, the empowered women, to partner with!! (there is nothing 'gory' to that/) - but I have found none- zilch, zero, shunya!! 

The truth , maybe, is that I dont see you coupled!! Except for the fact that you need to have children and maybe that you want to qualify to that league!! 

Probably Bcs you are- an alpha fe- male!! 

But, give yourself time and you d find one!! After all, you need but one!!-)